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A Changed Body; A Positive Attitude [Maria]

The second in a series of posts by Maria Bottiglieri

This entry continues the story of my journey with breast cancer. In my last post, I left off after my diagnosis. The prospect of treatment was very scary, but I knew that I wanted to live.

On May 4^th, 2011, I had surgery to remove my left breast. I did not want to risk a local recurrence, so I chose to have a mastectomy. From that point on, my body would never be the same. I couldn’t decide if that was a good thing or a bad thing. On one hand, I felt betrayed by my body. On the other, my scar is a constant reminder that I am a survivor.

During my recovery, I continued coming to Kardon for my movement therapy sessions twice weekly. It was encouraging to see that my strength was gradually increasing over time. Emotionally, I’m now able to look in the mirror without cringing. This is a huge step for me that would not have been possible had it not been for the gentle persistence of my therapist, Mark. He showed me that I could accept things for “where they are” and that I didn’t always have to be my own worst critic.

Throughout this process, I am learning to be a gentler person. I’ve gotten a second chance at life and I’m choosing to life each moment to the fullest. In fact, I’m writing an original song about it. Here’s a little excerpt that I hope will inspire others:

Life is ours for what seems like a moment. Don’t take it for granted. It will pass before you know it! Live a legacy every day.

In my final post in this series, next month, I will write about the impact that music therapy has had on my recovery. My story is a reminder that no matter how difficult life can be, a positive attitude can make a big difference!

6 Responses to “A Changed Body; A Positive Attitude [Maria]”

1. Carolyn Hearn says:

   November 11, 2011 at 5:34 pm

   Beautiful story, Maria. You are an inspiration to others.

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2. Maria Salamone says:

   November 13, 2011 at 8:52 pm

   Love it cuz and I love you! You look great. The hair no big deal, the short hair makes you even more beautiful:O)
   God bless you,and much LOVE,
   Maria

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3. Nadine Silber (the very rambunctious Ethan and Aaron's mommy:-) says:

   November 16, 2011 at 4:37 pm

   Thank you so much for sharing something so personal, Maria. Your strength and positive outlook are very inspiring.

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4. Shyedda Dorsey says:

   November 16, 2011 at 11:25 pm

   This story proves that you are a strong person and of course you knew this and anytime you doubted that, I made sure to remind you everyday. Your story will help others, while it brings others together…just as god intended. You are an inspiration…know that. (^_^)

   ~~SHY~~

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5. Mike Keenan says:

   November 17, 2011 at 11:57 pm

   Live a Legacy Every Day! You are an inspiration Maria!

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   • Maria Bottiglieri says:

     November 25, 2011 at 5:55 pm

     Thanks for responding to my blog, Mike! I really appreciate it. Hope you had a great thanksgiving!

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